Overwhelm & Stress

Episode 21: The Power of Facing Your Fears

HOW TO STOP AVOIDING CONFLICT & OVERCOME FEAR WITHOUT ADDED STRESS!

“Avoidance is the best short-term strategy to escape conflict, and the best long-term strategy to ensure suffering.” - Brendon Burchard

  

Vibrant achievers face their fears & challenges head-on.The challenge is that facing your fears and problems head on can cause some anxiety. It can make you feel so uncomfortable.

But, avoidance is making your life small, keeping you from reaching your goals, and ruining relationships...every single day.

In episode 21 of the Heal To Transform podcast, we’re breaking down a simple process you can use to overcome resistance, and face your challenges and problems head on (without shutting down)

Use this process in your life now, and you’ll never miss a big opportunity again because of fear! You’ll open up more possibilities, and fix problems quickly and without anxiety & stress.

In this episode you will…

  • Discover how to face your biggest challenges and problems with courage and confidence - so you can live your biggest, most fulfilling life.

  • Understand how avoidance is holding you back in relationships, opportunities, and reaching your goals.

  • Learn how to overcome resistance and anxiety when facing challenges and fears.

  • Get two techniques for relieving fear, stress or anxiety QUICKLY, so that you can crush your goals!


So, how will your life expand when you finally face what you’ve been avoiding?

Let us know in the comments, or click here to join the discussion in the Heal To Transform community.

THREE WAYS TO LISTEN:

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If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

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Episode 18: The 4 BIG Sabotaging Fears & How To Break FREE

I’ve come to find after years of working with clients to heal their past so they can overcome their fears and blocks - that there are four main fears that are keeping you stuck.

If you can discover these fears - and start to push past them - you open up a whole new world for yourself.

You stop holding yourself back.

So - I’m going to give you the FOUR biggest fears and give you an example of each - then I’m going to break down some simple ways to push past your fears.


Often - all it takes to rewire your brain for success is the learning experience - the knowledge that you gain - this new knowledge creates new connections in your brain. And this knowledge will set you up for change and EPIC growth!! Dive into this podcast, it’s going to be so incredible!

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!



Episode 17: How To Be More Courageous & Daring With Dr. Melissa Halstead

“Courage Starts With Showing Up And Letting Ourselves Be Seen” - Brene Brown

In today's episode I'm talking with one amazingly courageous woman who's overcome trauma of a toxic mother, childhood molestation, and has rebuilt tumultuous relationships with her daughter.

Dr. Melissa Halstead has achieved extraordinary healing and continues to spread her love & caring to her students, family and her community. Today, you're going to hear her story of how she's done all of this in less than 6 months and how you can do it to!

If you would like to learn more about how you can become more courageous & daring through healing your past….then I invite you to join me for a  FREE Online Workshop on January 14th or 15th, or click here to learn more.

If you would like to learn more about how you can become more courageous & daring through healing your past….then I invite you to join me for a FREE Online Workshop on January 14th or 15th, or click here to learn more.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!

Episode 16: Procrastination, Indecision & Perfectionism, Oh My!

🖐️🖐️Raise your hand if you are a big ol’ procrastinator - you’re always waiting until the last minute to get stuff done - and it has really affected your life (and stress levels)

Now, another form of procrastination is not following through - this is just procrastination on the back end of the activity. You start - you just don’t finish. Raise your hand if this is you!

Okay, shout out loud if you have the hardest damn time making a decision!

And lastly, give me a big nod if you consider yourself a big of a perfectionist!

How many of you have your hands up, shouting and nodding profusely up and down - please send me a picture if you are doing this - I’d love to see it. (Tag me on IG @vkolick #healtotransformpodcast)

In today’s Heal To Transform podcast, you’re going to discover exactly why you procrastinate...why you have such a hard time making a decision….or why you have an overwhelming need to do things perfectly.

And, you’ll figure out a quick way to get rid of these sabotaging habits!

Don’t forget to  SAVE YOUR SPOT  for the FREE Healing & Forgiveness Experience that begins January 7th!   The 5-Part LIVE Online Experience To Break Free of The Bondage of Past Hurts, Stop Anxiety, Release Anger And Finally Experience Epic Growth In Your Relationships, Life & Purpose.

Don’t forget to SAVE YOUR SPOT for the FREE Healing & Forgiveness Experience that begins January 7th! The 5-Part LIVE Online Experience To Break Free of The Bondage of Past Hurts, Stop Anxiety, Release Anger And Finally Experience Epic Growth In Your Relationships, Life & Purpose.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!

Episode 15: Freedom From Shame & Guilt

“Guilt is just as powerful, but its influence is positive, while shame’s is destructive. Shame erodes our courage and fuels disengagement”

-Brene Brown

Have you ever had that sinking feeling of guilt. The feeling that you did something wrong, or aren’t doing something right?

The feeling that nags at you and you ruminate and ruminate - until you get anxious or avoid certain situations all together.

Is it guilt? Or is it shame?

In Episode 15 of the Heal To Transform podcast, we’re breaking down the difference between guilt and shame…and why guilt is a life catalyst and shame is a life drain.

You’ll discover:

  • How to use guilt to improve your life and become the best version of yourself.

  • How to figure out if what you’re feeling is guilt or shame.

  • How to become free of shame in your life, including body shame (#metoo), and

  • The power (& difficulty) of self-forgiveness.

Don’t forget to  SAVE YOUR SPOT  for the FREE Healing & Forgiveness Experience that begins January 7th!   The 5-Part LIVE Online Experience To Break Free of The Bondage of Past Hurts, Stop Anxiety, Release Anger And Finally Experience Epic Growth In Your Relationships, Life & Purpose.

Don’t forget to SAVE YOUR SPOT for the FREE Healing & Forgiveness Experience that begins January 7th! The 5-Part LIVE Online Experience To Break Free of The Bondage of Past Hurts, Stop Anxiety, Release Anger And Finally Experience Epic Growth In Your Relationships, Life & Purpose.

After you listen 🎧 to Episode 15, we’d love to hear about how your going to release shame and guilt in 2019?? Just leave a comment below!

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!

Episode 13: Crush Your Anxiety & Stress With These Three Powerful Hacks

If you ever feel anxiety, stress or overwhelm….

…if you ever feel like your brain has been taken over by the negative thought aliens and you can’t stop the running reel in your head saying, “I’m not good enough, I can’t do this, I’ll never get through this, I CAN’T HANDLE THIS ANYMORE!, What’s wrong with me!

Then this episode of the Heal To Transform Podcast is for you.

Tune it to learn:

  • How to stop the monkey brain of negative thoughts that keeps you up at night, and make your heart race and your mind spin.

  • What’s going on in your brain and body to cause anxiety and stress and more importantly - how to put an end to it.

  • The FIVE simple questions you need to ask yourself in order to have a more peaceful mind & life.

  • A quick 20 second exercise that will stop anxiety in it’s tracks.

  • Why anxiety is actually protecting you….and how to start using your anxiety to heal yourself from past hurts and emotional wounds.

  • And Much More….


P.S. Grab your FREE guide to crush anxiety, stress & overwhelm - it’s the perfect companion to this episode of Heal To Transform.  Just click here .

P.S. Grab your FREE guide to crush anxiety, stress & overwhelm - it’s the perfect companion to this episode of Heal To Transform. Just click here.

If you want to feel more peace, release the anxiety and stress, and create true transformation in your life, this is a must-listen episode!

You won’t find this information anywhere else!

Once you’ve listened, make sure to leave a review and let us know your biggest “ah-ha” moment. Which hack are you going to use to start lowering your anxiety & stress?

Episode 10: The Exact Scripts For Setting Healthy Boundaries TODAY!

You know you really, really need to set stronger boundaries in your relationships, at work, and with your friends and family…

But you have no clue what to say or what to do. How do you actually set healthy boundaries?

Wouldn’t it be amazing if someone would just give you an exact script of what to say in all those difficult situations.

You would know exactly why to say to get your co-worker to stop leaving their shit on your desk.

You had the exact words to tell your partner that you will no longer accept their cruel words.

You knew how to tell your overly needy friend “No” - you cannot spend 15 hours helping her clean her house this weekend.

What if you had a guide...a playbook of sorts that told you exactly what to say in all of these situations and more!?

You don’t even need to think...all you have to do is read from a script and WAH-ZAMM...you set a brand, new healthy boundary (at the same time transform yourself & your relationships)!!

If this sounds completely amazing, then dive into Episode 10 of the Heal To Transform Podcast where we tell you exactly what to say and when to say it - so you can start setting healthy boundaries today!!

There also may be a FREEBIE BOUNDARY PLAYBOOK GUIDE available...that tells you exactly what to say...and when to say it!!

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE ULTIMATE BOUNDARY PLAYBOOK!! Just  click here.

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE ULTIMATE BOUNDARY PLAYBOOK!! Just click here.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These reviews help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!

Episode 09: Becoming A Boundary Superhero

This is your guide to getting through the holidays without emotional overwhelm!

Become a boundary superhero and join the “I’m-free-and-in-control-of-my-life” club!

How nice would that be during this holiday season?

What if your mother-in-law had no power over your mood?

You take all those “do you really need that extra helping, dear” comments with a light-hearted laughter, and go on with your good mood.

What if you felt assertive and confident in your choices, and others treated you with respect and admiration?

Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others!” - Brene Brown

If you don’t start setting boundaries today, you’re going to be losing the peace of mind that you deserve this holiday season (& beyond!).

Check out Episode 9 of the Heal To Transform podcast where you’re going to discover...

  • how healthy (or unhealthy) your current boundaries are,

  • what you can do to improve your boundaries, and

  • a fun & easy energy trick to keep other people’s yucky emotions away from you this holiday season!

Ready to be untouchable? Go ahead, check out the newest Heal To Transform podcast here!

P.S. Don’t forget to take the FREE QUIZ to determine your Boundary Personality Type!  Click here.

P.S. Don’t forget to take the FREE QUIZ to determine your Boundary Personality Type! Click here.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!

Episode 08: The Limiting Beliefs That Are Keeping You Stuck

Have you ever had a goal that you’ve had a hard time meeting...despite the number of times you’ve tried?

Ever had a problem in your life where you just couldn’t seem to find a solution? Ever wanted to break a habit or create a new habit with little success?

You feel stuck, lost motivation, or you start self-sabotaging.

It’s not your fault.

Your subconscious may have a limiting belief (aka - an energy block) that is keeping you from succeeding and reaching your biggest goals and dreams.

In Episode 8 of the Heal To Transform podcast, you are going to learn how to break through these blocks and finally erase those limiting beliefs that have been keeping you stuck!

Buckle up - because you’re about to break loose and accomplish all of those big dreams with this magical little trick! Click here to listen on iTunes now.

Don’t forget to grab your free “Release Your Limiting Beliefs” Guide & Video.  Just click here .

Don’t forget to grab your free “Release Your Limiting Beliefs” Guide & Video. Just click here.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!

Episode 07: Rewiring Your Brain For Your Ultimate Life

“A better you and a better future for all of us begins in the brain” - Debbie Hampton

In episode 7, Wendy and I are walking you through the steps you need to take to rewire your brain so you can BECOME the person who lives in purpose and meaning.

We're going to break down the reasons your thoughts hang on to negativity, why it's hard to break habits, and the exact process you can use to start rewiring your brain for your ultimate life!

Break out the earphones, and crank up the volume…because this is life-changing stuff!

For a FREE GUIDE to this awesome brain exercise,  just click here  and register for the Ultimate Life Purpose Challenge!

For a FREE GUIDE to this awesome brain exercise, just click here and register for the Ultimate Life Purpose Challenge!

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!