Success Story: From Lonely to Adored

Recently, I was talking with a potential client during a FREE CONSULTATION.  During one of these assessments the woman on the other end of the phone exclaimed to me that her and her husband hadn't talked in almost a week!

She was scared and felt so lonely.  

She stated that her and her husband had been fighting a lot over the last 6 months - but this time was different.  This time they stopped caring.  They didn't even care enough to fight. 

She said they had both become numb to trying to fix their relationship and their challenges.  This client was overwhelmed with fear and anxiety over her marriage.  She was feeling hopeless.  

She was scared that they would just become roommates.  She truly believed that her and her husband had lost all of the intimacy, connection and deep conversations that once filled their marriage.

I let her know it wasn't hopeless.  

During the assessment, I let her know what she was doing to sabotage the relationship and gave her some simple tips to move her relationship past this hump.  She hung up feeling relieved and had a glimmer of hope. 

I ended up working with her and her husband over the course of 90-days.  We skyped and talked every week for one hour.  I provided them activities to do each week and held them accountable for making the changes they wanted.  

At the end of the 90-days this couple was laughing together, were more connected than ever and were planning a couples vacation.

In our 6-month follow up, the same couple told me how much their lives have changed.  They told me that their life is peaceful and enjoyable together. 

They told me they often just sit together and talk about anything and everything - and enjoy it just like when they were dating!

They told me they are learning new things about each other and feel closer to one another every single day. 


I'm always so touched and humbled each time I hear from a past client and they tell me how their lives have changed.  

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Valerie Kolick, therapist and relationship expert has created this blog to help couples and individuals create happiness and joy in their marriages and lives. If this is your first time here, LEARN MORE here and don’t forget to Download Your FREE Extraordinary Relationship Workbook.