How many times do you walk away from an argument with your spouse and think, "He had no clue what I was saying" or "She didn't really listen to me".
If you are like 90 percent of other couples - probably a lot!
It can be really difficult to truly communicate with your spouse (or anyone for that matter). Often, we think that we are being very clear - but in reality, our message is jumbled.
The trick to truly feeling heard and understood in your marriage is two-fold: