selfish in marriage

Are You Married To A Narcissist?

Are You Married To A Narcissist?

Narcissism in general terms is being self-centered, selfish or needing to feel special - and we all can do some of these things - some of the time.  Often, we can display signs of narcissism when we need to booster our confidence, hide our vulnerabilities or protect ourselves from being sad, lonely or scared.

Selfish vs. Selfless In Your Relationship

Selfish vs. Selfless In Your Relationship

The key here is…

You have to find the balance in your relationship between selfless and selfish.

If you are constantly selfless and letting everyone else have the armrest – you will find yourself resentful and frustrated with lots of aches!

If you are consistently selfish you will push your partner away, make them feel uncomfortable, and probably live with some hidden guilt and anxiety. 

If you can find the balance between getting your needs met and meeting the needs of your spouse – then you can create the perfect airplane seating situation…