boundaries

Episode 41: Is People-Pleasing Making You Sick & Stressed?

How To Start Living YOUR Authentic Life By Saying “NO”!

Would you like to live your life more authentically and let go of extra added stress? 

Did you know that by saying “yes” to others and not having boundaries adds stress to your life - AND can cause physical illness?? 

Our conversation today is all about how to stop living your life for others - and start living the life that you truly deserve…

What’s the #1 thing holding you back from your Epic life? 

It’s that people-pleasing attitude!!

You’re going to get tons of value today if ever feel like you don’t have time for yourself or if you have constant stress and feel run down or lacking of energy.

I hope you’ll really take this in and be open to applying these new thoughts and ideas today. 

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In this Episode of the Heal to Transform podcast, you’ll discover...

  • Recent studies are showing that “people-pleasing” activities may actually lead to auto-immune diseases and raised levels of stress.

  • The 4 most common behaviors that lead to physical illness and overwhelm. 

  • Why your childhood may be the reason for the “people-pleasing” behavior, and

  • 5 questions you can ask yourself each week that will help you stop living your life for everyone else - and start living authentically YOU!

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Episode 40: When You're Changing & Your Partner Isn't

How to Let Go of Expectations and Come From Love

Why is loneliness one of the biggest epidemics in the world? 

In this episode of the Heal to Transform podcast - we have a simple answer to this impossible problem….we’ll also answer some of your other common challenges such as: 

Why do I have to work so hard to change myself and my partner isn’t doing anything. 

My partner and I are growing apart - we’re just not in love any more. 

I’m changing and he’s not, and it causing problems and disconnection in our relationship.

This episode is possibly one of the most mind-bending and relatable podcasts yet...it even made Wendy tear up...because it touched her so deeply. 

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This podcast is for anyone who wants to do better, be better, and love more...

  • Our culture is directly responsible for the epidemic of loneliness - and you can start to change this with one simple act!!

  • Which stage of growth and transformation are you in? 

  • Why we push others away when they aren’t doing what we want them to - and how to change this. 

  • And one poignant statement that brought Wendy to tears and shifted her completely.

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Question: Question: What was your biggest take-away from this weeks episode?

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Episode 15: Freedom From Shame & Guilt

“Guilt is just as powerful, but its influence is positive, while shame’s is destructive. Shame erodes our courage and fuels disengagement”

-Brene Brown

Have you ever had that sinking feeling of guilt. The feeling that you did something wrong, or aren’t doing something right?

The feeling that nags at you and you ruminate and ruminate - until you get anxious or avoid certain situations all together.

Is it guilt? Or is it shame?

In Episode 15 of the Heal To Transform podcast, we’re breaking down the difference between guilt and shame…and why guilt is a life catalyst and shame is a life drain.

You’ll discover:

  • How to use guilt to improve your life and become the best version of yourself.

  • How to figure out if what you’re feeling is guilt or shame.

  • How to become free of shame in your life, including body shame (#metoo), and

  • The power (& difficulty) of self-forgiveness.

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After you listen 🎧 to Episode 15, we’d love to hear about how your going to release shame and guilt in 2019?? Just leave a comment below!

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Episode 11: The 4 Magic Keys To Raising Your Confidence & Self-Love

We all have self-doubts, moments of “am I good enough”, and concerns about what others think about us.

Unfortunately, these moments can keep us from great relationships, reaching our goals, and may even cause anxiety & depression.

Lucky for you, in today’s Heal To Transform podcast, we’re breaking down the 4 keys to improving your confidence & self-love.

There’s no fluff advice in here like…

….Go repeat “I love you” in the mirror every day

….or listen to a recording of “I’m enough” affirmations

We go deep - we dive down into the foundational elements of creating TRUE, AUTHENTIC confidence.

If you can master these 4-keys...your confidence and self-love are going to start EXPLODING (in a good way).

Go catch the podcast here.

P.S. For a limited time, I’m giving away my powerful “Confidence & Self-Love Experience” program ($147 Value).  Watch this short video  to get a quick & easy way to create a healthy emotional boundary, and learn more about how to get this incredible program for FREE!!

P.S. For a limited time, I’m giving away my powerful “Confidence & Self-Love Experience” program ($147 Value). Watch this short video to get a quick & easy way to create a healthy emotional boundary, and learn more about how to get this incredible program for FREE!!

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” and let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!

Episode 10: The Exact Scripts For Setting Healthy Boundaries TODAY!

You know you really, really need to set stronger boundaries in your relationships, at work, and with your friends and family…

But you have no clue what to say or what to do. How do you actually set healthy boundaries?

Wouldn’t it be amazing if someone would just give you an exact script of what to say in all those difficult situations.

You would know exactly why to say to get your co-worker to stop leaving their shit on your desk.

You had the exact words to tell your partner that you will no longer accept their cruel words.

You knew how to tell your overly needy friend “No” - you cannot spend 15 hours helping her clean her house this weekend.

What if you had a guide...a playbook of sorts that told you exactly what to say in all of these situations and more!?

You don’t even need to think...all you have to do is read from a script and WAH-ZAMM...you set a brand, new healthy boundary (at the same time transform yourself & your relationships)!!

If this sounds completely amazing, then dive into Episode 10 of the Heal To Transform Podcast where we tell you exactly what to say and when to say it - so you can start setting healthy boundaries today!!

There also may be a FREEBIE BOUNDARY PLAYBOOK GUIDE available...that tells you exactly what to say...and when to say it!!

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE ULTIMATE BOUNDARY PLAYBOOK!! Just  click here.

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE ULTIMATE BOUNDARY PLAYBOOK!! Just click here.

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Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These reviews help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

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Episode 09: Becoming A Boundary Superhero

This is your guide to getting through the holidays without emotional overwhelm!

Become a boundary superhero and join the “I’m-free-and-in-control-of-my-life” club!

How nice would that be during this holiday season?

What if your mother-in-law had no power over your mood?

You take all those “do you really need that extra helping, dear” comments with a light-hearted laughter, and go on with your good mood.

What if you felt assertive and confident in your choices, and others treated you with respect and admiration?

Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others!” - Brene Brown

If you don’t start setting boundaries today, you’re going to be losing the peace of mind that you deserve this holiday season (& beyond!).

Check out Episode 9 of the Heal To Transform podcast where you’re going to discover...

  • how healthy (or unhealthy) your current boundaries are,

  • what you can do to improve your boundaries, and

  • a fun & easy energy trick to keep other people’s yucky emotions away from you this holiday season!

Ready to be untouchable? Go ahead, check out the newest Heal To Transform podcast here!

P.S. Don’t forget to take the FREE QUIZ to determine your Boundary Personality Type!  Click here.

P.S. Don’t forget to take the FREE QUIZ to determine your Boundary Personality Type! Click here.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!