Episode 45: How to Find Clarity

Have you ever had a big decision to make and you didn’t know if you should trust your heart, your head or your gut?

Maybe you’re looking for purpose. Or wondering why you don’t feel fulfilled? 

Maybe you’re wondering if you need to cut loose a toxic relationship or finally quit an energy sucking job. 

Maybe you just didn’t even know where to start and you felt stuck and frustrated. Spending precious energy and time searching for an answer….asking around, reading books and blogs, searching for just one ounce of clarity? 

We’ve all been there...unfortunately, most people are making HUGE MISTAKES when trying to make a decision or looking for clarity. 

This mistake leads to wasted months, days, even years and causes anxiety each and every passing hour. 

That’s why in this episode of the Heal To Transform podcast I’m breaking down the exact steps to find clarity and giving you a simple process to help you make any decision. 

In this podcast, you’ll discover…

  • The BIGGEST MISTAKE most people make that’s keeps them stuck and prevents them from clarity and action. 

  • How you can find REAL clarity.

  • How to become more DECISIVE, CONFIDENT & INTUITIVE using a powerful process I break down in the podcast. 

  • Why your BRAIN KEEPS YOU FRUSTRATED, overwhelmed and stuck in inaction and what to do to change this!

This is a short, but powerful episode that you don’t want to miss!!

10 Powerful Questions for Clarity & Decision Making

Question 1: What do I need help in deciding? Where am I getting stuck? 

Question 2: What are my possible options? What else? What else? What else? What else?

Question 3: Should I [CHOICE A] or [CHOICE B]?   (if there are more than two options, just do two options a day, and then choose a winner and do questions 3-10 again with the next two options again with the winner and the next option - rinse and repeat. I.e., Should I [CHOICE WINNER] or [CHOICE C], Should I [CHOICE WINNER] or [CHOICE D])

Question 4: How do I want to feel or what do I want to experience as an outomces or result of this choice? What else? What else? What else? What else? 

Question 5: Will choice A make me feel this way or have these experiences? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? 

Question 6: Will choice B make me feel this way or have these experiences? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? 

Question 7: What are the possible consequences of Choice A? What else? What else? What else? What else? 

Question 8: What are the possible consequences of Choice A? What else? What else? What else? What else? 

Question 9: I now have all of the information and clarity I need, and I trust myself to make a good enough decision right now. What is my decision? 

Question 10: What action will I take next? 

You may have to repeat over a number of days. Don’t talk to others or ask for others for advice during this time. Trust yourself. 

Episode 36: I Have A Great Life, Why Am I So Unhappy??

The 4-Step Process to Getting Unstuck and Start Living Your Fullest Life

We all deserve to live a happy, fulfilling and exciting life.

The problem is that we often get stuck in our day-to-day activities, so we forget what once inspired us and made us happy.

We start thinking, “I have it all, why am I still unhappy?”,

“Why do I feel like something is still missing from my life?”

“Isn’t there more to life?”

80% of how we think, feel and behave is on auto-pilot, and somewhere along the line we lose ourselves...we lose our identify.

In today’s podcast, Wendy and I are going to walk you through 4 Powerfully Simple steps you can take to get unstuck and start finding your true identity and purpose again.

Follow these 4-steps and you’ll never wonder “Isn’t there more to life?” - you’ll know the answer - and you’ll know exactly how to get there!

In this episode you will…

  • Discover why you don’t need to feel guilty by wanting more!

  • Stop letting the fear of success and the fear of failure keep you from creating your incredible life.

  • Understand what your BRAIN needs in order to be more successful and create more self-esteem

  • Learn how to recover and thrive after a big change in your life - like a divorce, a move, a job change, and so on...

Here’s to your happiness, fulfillment and success!!

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