couples communication

Episode 35: 25-Minute Relationship Reboot

Is it possible to transform your marriage in 25-minutes? (without your partner even knowing?)

Passionate, loving relationships ARE NOT created by learning great communication, weekly date nights, or mastering “secret” intimacy skills.

Because even if you know all of these things, you usually don’t do them.  

We’re smart women - we know we’re not “supposed” to nag or scream at our husband.

We know we’re not “supposed” to think he’s a lazy, selfish jerk.

We know we’re not “supposed” to imagine how our lives and marriages would be so much better if he would just change (or magically become Channing Tatum)

We know we’re “supposed” to say things like “I feel…” and “So, what I heard was…”

We know we can’t control our husbands - but, boy, do we try!

It’s not your fault.

Your brain isn’t wired for passionate, healthy and happy relationships.

Your brain is wired to protect you. And it will do whatever it can to keep any potential rejection or pain far, far away.

Your brain will do some extreme things to keep you safe - stuff like trying to control your partner, tricking you to believe there’s something better out there, unleashing the anger, and telling you not to trust or fully love your partner - because eventually...he’ll hurt you.

Unfortunately, all of these tactics are the exact thing creating distance, resentment, and unhappiness in relationships.

And, until we reprogram our brain to realize that it’s safe to fully committing to and deeply loving our partners - we’ll continue to push the passion away.

We’ll continue to stay disconnected, and feel like roommates.

So, what if you could teach your brain how to react with love, how to create passion, and how to let go of blame, control and resentments?

What if you could do this in less than 25-minutes, even if the relationship’s been struggling for years?

Join me for my free, 25-Minute Relationship Reboot. Your chance to reprogram your relationship mindset using the 5 simple steps I teach inside my paid program.

These 5-steps can help you fix any relationship challenge, and will also help you to feel more loved, adored and appreciated.



Episode 28: The 8 Magical Letters That Will Change Your Marriage Forever!

How Strengthening Your Communication Adds More Fun & Passion Back Into Your Marriage

Great communication is the foundation to any amazing relationship - and this is no different for your marriage. Unfortunately, 90% of couples state that communication is their biggest problem.

The problem is that our brains are wired to protect us and often go into fight or flight at the first signs of trouble in an intimate relationship - which makes “healthy” communication really tough.

Luckily, we can learn to manage this reaction - and help our partners manage their reactions - with some simple skills. Once you learn these skills, your communication and connection will become sooo much deeper!

Listen now….

P.S. Don’t forget to save your spot for the FREE 5-DAY VIRTUAL EXPERIENCE: 5-Days To Feel Heard, Understood and DESIRED in Your Relationship/Marriage.  Click here.

P.S. Don’t forget to save your spot for the FREE 5-DAY VIRTUAL EXPERIENCE: 5-Days To Feel Heard, Understood and DESIRED in Your Relationship/Marriage. Click here.

In this episode you will:

  • Discover exactly what makes your partner heat up with anger or become cold as ice and close off and how to change the pattern.

  • You’ll learn the single driver that is causing communication difficulties.

  • You’ll get the magic “LUVE PINS” potion that will help you avoid arguments, get your needs met, and connect intimately to your partner.

  • And, if you listen closely - you’ll hear one technique that my husband created, and I DO NOT RECOMMEND : )

RESOURCES:

FREEBIE: LUVE PINS Communication Cards

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE LUVE PINS Cards!  Just click here to download.

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE LUVE PINS Cards! Just click here to download.

Episode 22: 6 Love-Crushing Mistakes That Are Keeping You From An Epic Relationship

How to Bring Passion & Zing Back to your Relationship

You need to feel cherished & adored in your relationship.

The problem is that improving your communication, thinking more positively, or weekly date nights aren’t working. And every relationship is so different that one relationship “fix” isn’t going to work for another.

Luckily, I’ve identified 6 universal mistakes that most women make in their relationships, which are holding you back from feeling adored and cherished.

Stop making these mistakes, and you’ll see the passion come flooding back into your relationship. You’ll notice that he looks at you with a new adoration, and you’ll feel more supported and loved than ever before.

In Episode 22 of the Heal To Transform podcast, you will...

  • Discover why communication isn’t the problem (and what to focus on instead)

  • Learn how you may be putting unneeded pressure on yourself, your partner, and your relationship and how this is actually pushing him away.

  • Why I don’t do date nights, yet still keep the passion alive!

  • Finally let go of resentments, so that you can start rebuilding your relationship from a positive foundation.

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE checklist to “Passion-ize”  your marriage today! If you do these 8 simple things every day for 1 week - you will see a HUGE Transformation in your relationship!

P.S. Don’t forget to grab your FREE checklist to “Passion-ize” your marriage today! If you do these 8 simple things every day for 1 week - you will see a HUGE Transformation in your relationship!

Resources

6 Reasons You Don’t Feel Cherished In Your Relationship (MindBodyGreen)

FREE CHECKLIST: 8 Simple Hacks To A Passion-Filled Marriage (Do These for 7-Day & Watch Your Marriage Transform!)

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Episode 20: How To Get Your Partner To Support You

You’re frustrated and upset that your partner isn’t supporting you.

You’re so excited about your new career, new business or new healthy lifestyle - but he can’t seem to get on board with your excitement.

How do I get my husband on board with my new business idea?

My husband sabotages my diet and exercise plan.

My husband doesn't support me in anything that I do!

How can I get my husband to take on more of the parenting and household work, so I have more time to concentrate on my new journey?

I hear these statements all the time.

It can be scary to go down a new professional or life path - and even scarier when your spouse doesn’t support your new journey, or worse yet, tries to sabotage the journey.

In this episode of the Heal To Transform podcast, Wendy and I will help you build your arsenal.

And I even give you the EXACT SCRIPTS you need to get your husband’s support.

Don’t FORGET to download your free guide & the SCRIPTS that will tell you exactly what to say to truly get your partner’s support & build your communication!  Click Here.

Don’t FORGET to download your free guide & the SCRIPTS that will tell you exactly what to say to truly get your partner’s support & build your communication! Click Here.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!