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Episode 45: How to Find Clarity

Have you ever had a big decision to make and you didn’t know if you should trust your heart, your head or your gut?

Maybe you’re looking for purpose. Or wondering why you don’t feel fulfilled? 

Maybe you’re wondering if you need to cut loose a toxic relationship or finally quit an energy sucking job. 

Maybe you just didn’t even know where to start and you felt stuck and frustrated. Spending precious energy and time searching for an answer….asking around, reading books and blogs, searching for just one ounce of clarity? 

We’ve all been there...unfortunately, most people are making HUGE MISTAKES when trying to make a decision or looking for clarity. 

This mistake leads to wasted months, days, even years and causes anxiety each and every passing hour. 

That’s why in this episode of the Heal To Transform podcast I’m breaking down the exact steps to find clarity and giving you a simple process to help you make any decision. 

In this podcast, you’ll discover…

  • The BIGGEST MISTAKE most people make that’s keeps them stuck and prevents them from clarity and action. 

  • How you can find REAL clarity.

  • How to become more DECISIVE, CONFIDENT & INTUITIVE using a powerful process I break down in the podcast. 

  • Why your BRAIN KEEPS YOU FRUSTRATED, overwhelmed and stuck in inaction and what to do to change this!

This is a short, but powerful episode that you don’t want to miss!!

10 Powerful Questions for Clarity & Decision Making

Question 1: What do I need help in deciding? Where am I getting stuck? 

Question 2: What are my possible options? What else? What else? What else? What else?

Question 3: Should I [CHOICE A] or [CHOICE B]?   (if there are more than two options, just do two options a day, and then choose a winner and do questions 3-10 again with the next two options again with the winner and the next option - rinse and repeat. I.e., Should I [CHOICE WINNER] or [CHOICE C], Should I [CHOICE WINNER] or [CHOICE D])

Question 4: How do I want to feel or what do I want to experience as an outomces or result of this choice? What else? What else? What else? What else? 

Question 5: Will choice A make me feel this way or have these experiences? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? 

Question 6: Will choice B make me feel this way or have these experiences? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? Why/How? 

Question 7: What are the possible consequences of Choice A? What else? What else? What else? What else? 

Question 8: What are the possible consequences of Choice A? What else? What else? What else? What else? 

Question 9: I now have all of the information and clarity I need, and I trust myself to make a good enough decision right now. What is my decision? 

Question 10: What action will I take next? 

You may have to repeat over a number of days. Don’t talk to others or ask for others for advice during this time. Trust yourself. 

Episode 33: 5 Simple Steps To Eliminate Indecision

How To Make Decisions Quickly and Without Regret!

Do you ever have a hard time making decisions? Wish that someone else could just tell you what to do?

Every day we’re faced with dozens of little and big decisions. From standing in your closet debating between the black flats or the cute new platforms you just bought - but you know are going to hurt your feet.

To life-altering decisions like a career change or big move.

We get burned out trying to make decisions, and then we stop to trust ourselves and get paralyzed with fear that we’ll make the wrong decision or that we’re going to regret something.

In the Heal To Transform podcast, Wendy and I are breaking down the three biggest obstacles you face when making a decision.

And then we give you 5 simple steps you can take TODAY to help you make confident decisions with NO regrets!!

Here’s some of the highlights:

  • How indecision is killing your energy and drive!

  • The top fears you need to overcome so you can be a decision making superhero.

  • The one tool that will help you let go of the fear of regret, so you can move forward confidently in any decision you make.

  • How to tap into your intuition using a tool you’ll find in your wallet!

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Episode 16: Procrastination, Indecision & Perfectionism, Oh My!

🖐️🖐️Raise your hand if you are a big ol’ procrastinator - you’re always waiting until the last minute to get stuff done - and it has really affected your life (and stress levels)

Now, another form of procrastination is not following through - this is just procrastination on the back end of the activity. You start - you just don’t finish. Raise your hand if this is you!

Okay, shout out loud if you have the hardest damn time making a decision!

And lastly, give me a big nod if you consider yourself a big of a perfectionist!

How many of you have your hands up, shouting and nodding profusely up and down - please send me a picture if you are doing this - I’d love to see it. (Tag me on IG @vkolick #healtotransformpodcast)

In today’s Heal To Transform podcast, you’re going to discover exactly why you procrastinate...why you have such a hard time making a decision….or why you have an overwhelming need to do things perfectly.

And, you’ll figure out a quick way to get rid of these sabotaging habits!

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Don’t forget to SAVE YOUR SPOT for the FREE Healing & Forgiveness Experience that begins January 7th! The 5-Part LIVE Online Experience To Break Free of The Bondage of Past Hurts, Stop Anxiety, Release Anger And Finally Experience Epic Growth In Your Relationships, Life & Purpose.

Subscribe & Review in iTunes

Are you subscribed to the Heal To Transform podcast? If you’re not, I’d love to have you, because you don’t want to miss an episode. Wendy, my amazing co-host, and I are adding new life-transforming and heart & mind healing episodes often, and if you’re not subscribed you may miss out on the episode that will create change in your life, or relationship! Just click here to subscribe now.

If you’re already loving the show, and this challenge, I would send you extra virtual healing vibes and energy if you left us a review on iTunes, too! These review help others find my podcast and of course we love reading them! Just click here to review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” an let me know what your favorite part of the podcast has been.

Oh yeah, and please remember….sharing is caring! You’re on this mission with us to transform and bring healing to the world - so make sure to share the podcast and spread the word!