Counseling Available in Urbana, New Market, Lake Linganore, Adamstown & Frederick Maryland

Coaching Available Nationwide


So glad you stopped by!  Are you are searching for peace and happiness in your life and relationship? Do you want to feel more connected to and loved by your partner?  Are you ready to let go of resentments and anger and move into a place of joy & love?  

Then you are in the right place!

I'm Valerie Kolick, couples counselor and life coach.  I know and understand your story.  I know what it feels like to be constantly fighting or disconnecting from your partner.  You're feeling stuck and wondering if you'll ever have a happy, secure relationship or be able to truly enjoy your life.  You may be feeling stressed, overwhelmed, anxious, angry and hopeless...or maybe just numb.

Is it possible to revive your relationship or marriage?  Is it possible to have passion again in your life?  Is it possible to have peace in your mind and heart?


I have dedicated the last decade of my life to helping couples and individuals just like you. I will work with you as an individual or a couple to let go of past resentments, rediscover hope and redesign the life & relationship you truly desire. You will transform your communication, understand you and your partners deepest needs (and how to meet them), and learn how to rebuild a passionate partnership.

How does that sound?  

If you are ready, just click here to set up your free consultation for face-to-face counseling (Urbana, Frederick or New Market, MD area) or telephone/skype coaching (nationwide), now!  

Here's what some of my past clients have to say:

"From the start of the first session with Valerie we knew we had made the right choice. She has a way of putting you at ease and leaving all judgments aside.  These sessions really strengthened John and I's relationship. We feel confident about what life will bring us and I can attribute a lot of that to Valerie.
- John & Rachel Schmidt

"I got more in one session with Valerie than I have in over a decade of ongoing therapy." - T.F.

Now it's your turn!  If you are ready to get unstuck, let go of stresses and anxieties and start living in the relationship and life you desire - it's time to get started!  

If you live in the Frederick, New Market or Urbana, Maryland area I'm available for face-to-face counseling.  Outside of this area, coaching is available via phone or skype.  

Just click the button below to set up a quick, no-obligation consultation call to see how I can help. 




Jump on over to my relationship blog where you will find inspirations, resources and step-by-step techniques for improving your relationship with your spouse, children and friends. Oh yeah, and some really cool tricks to balance your life!





My passion is helping couples and individuals who have lost their love of each other and their lives. I help you experience that in love feeling through powerful techniques that help you reconnect, rebuild trust, improve communication and become emotionally and physically passionate - EVEN if only one of you is on board. If you are serious about changing your marriage and your life, take the leap and APPLY HERE for a free consultation.